I have been in conversation with people who have been under the influence of wrath many times, and being patient is always the strongest weapon.
I have been in conversation with a man and a woman, who I deemed attarctive, and have exercised the virtue of patience in the face of the man's wrath to win the woman's favour.
Patience can be strong- deadly. Sometimes wrath is predictable, and patience, unpredictable.
In this cae of a three-way conversation between two men and a woman they both like- patience wins, because wrath is seen as weakness. Wrath is usually casued by hurt pride, which is a sign of exessive pride.
Comibned with humility, patience is truly deadly. It allows men to make women laugh while others have hurt pride, and are envious and wrathful.